My husband, Jason, and I have ran into many a people who have asked us about our first "fight". The look on the faces of these people is priceless when we tell them there hasn't been one. We have even had someone try to convince us that fighting is a "good" thing and every relationship goes through it. I don't think so. Where is the happiness in that? Sure we have had our disagreements and misunderstandings, but nothing we remember and definitely not a full blown fight. In fact, our few misunderstandings took place while we were apart, but that only seemed natural. It's hard to read someone when you aren't with them and definitely the stress of seperation played a big role.
However, since we have been married and together 24/7, there has been nothing but love and joy. No arguements and no fights. Why? Because it's not worth it. It wastes perfectly good time that could be spent in happiness with my husband. If we have an issue, we talk it out, work it out, then forget about it. We don't keep anything from each other. Honesty and communication is key. There isn't anything I wouldn't tell Jason. He is my best friend.
Marriage can be the most rewarding and uplifting experience that can happen to oneself for the rest of your life if you let it. Jason and I have a friendship that is unconditional, accepting, and looks passed the human flaws; a relationship full of communication, I love yous, surprises, and hugs and kisses.
That my friend is 'Our little secret'. And remember, fighting is NEVER a good thing.
